I wish I could say this week has been what it normally is - one focused on vision, creation, expansion, and preparation for the next evolution in a new year. I guess you could say that it has, in its own way, an emotional unfolding of values, release, cutting energetic cords, and practicing the utmost presence.Â
My dad was hospitalized the day after Christmas with COVID, put into a medically induced coma, on a ventilator, and due to COVID restrictions, my mom isnât even allowed by his side. We didnât know if he was going to live or die, though day by day, itâs looking incrementally better.Â
Needless to say, itâs been a whirlwind, trying, challenging, and all the things. I shared my pretty raw and real take on it in our Crown Yourself community and on my IG. I havenât held back, Iâve shown up. Struggled. Openly, in the hopes that for all the recovering perfectionists who put on a face of strength and who are used to being the âstrong oneâ that itâs okay to need support.Â
A few things...
Last year, I was catching up with one of my former clients, Sylvia over brunch. Yes, mimosas and all. (Ah, I remember those. #Notforanother6Months )
She was recounting all the amazing things that happened since we worked together. And I was eating it up!
Sheâd landed her dream job.
Sheâd got a $12,000 raise.
She was now being considered for another leadership role.
Sheâd met someone...you know...special. đ
There were sooooo many cheers coming from our table as I celebrated each and every one of her enormous victories. I was so freaking proud of all she had overcome, created, and manifested into her reality.
All from just one month intensive with me.
I feel so honored to do this work. To be able to tap people into their possibilities, beyond what even they may believe.
Then, she said something that took my breath away.
At that time, I had a prospective client, who was on the fence about working with me. I put her in touch with Syl to share a bit about her experience. (I ha
...In case you needed to hear this todayâŚ
You are NOT broken.Â
This was one of the most profound, transformational breakthroughs I had. And when it sunk into my soul back in 2016, it stuck...for good.
It is the BELIEF that you are broken, or even could be broken that is 100% plagiarized.Â
Just because youâre growing.Â
Just because youâre choosing to create a new reality doesnât mean that the old one was broken.
Ever.
You simply outgrew it.Â
Like a pair of clothes. It doesnât mean that they were broken or had holes in them.
They just donât fit anymore.Â
And thatâs okay.
Just like your beliefs - the ones you are consciously and currently creating NOW.Â
Those OLD beliefs donât fit the new version of you that you are creating.Â
Your energy, your vibe, your persona, your sovereignty expanded into a new dimension.
Thank those beliefs (those old clothes) for serving you, for being with you thus far.Â
They got you here.
They just wonât get you there.
And thatâs okay.Â
It doe
...When I first started Crown Yourself, I didnât start out coaching entrepreneurs to increase their profits by 150% in the next 12 months...that came over time.
Back in 2016, I just wanted to help people.
Still do.Â
And, like Liam Neeson, I had a certain set of skills that could do it - NLP, Time Line Therapy, hypnosis, and Pilates parasympathetic breathing.Â
I had ONE offer back then:
The Gold Package.
It is like a wham-bam-thank-you-maâam of 8 hours that my clients said literally transformed their lives.Â
But, in 2018 after becoming a Certified High-Performance Coach⢠I integrated my other skillsets into new, fresh shiny packages that allowed for me to work longer with the clients that I so adore.Â
Thatâs the beauty of owning your own business - you can evolve.Â
Change.
Pivot.
Transcend.
Transform.
Thatâs also the beauty of being human.Â
2020 has been an immense year of human evolution.
Weâ...
In honor of being nominated for âBest of the Bestâ for the Erin Strayer show, I was thinking of what I could do that would totally celebrate with you!Â
Like I want to give you the greatest gift, more than any other sugar daddy on Instagram has ever offered me ;) (Oh yeah, even while pregnant that stuff still happens.)
We had some other plans in the pipeline - but I was just...struggling...to...get...started.
Whenever that happens, I know there is a massive alignment check.Â
Either itâs the offer.
Or the product.
Or me.
I explore all avenues.Â
On my Queen Team meeting this week with our Membersâ Manager, Marie, it hit me.Â
It was the offer and the product.
What I had planned on putting out this week for you, just didnât ring Christmas cheer - especially after the year weâve all had.
So I checked in, prayed, asked for guidance and this came to me in the shower this morningâŚ
Go for the Gold.Â
Suddenly I knew exactly what I had to do.
You see, I didnât set out in coaching to ...
Wanna know the funny thing about showing up as your raw, real, most authentic self?Â
It works.Â
It pays.Â
And it even gets nominated!
This week we found out weâve been nominated for the Best of the Best of the Erin Strayer Show, as my episode was one of the TOP DOWNLOADED EPISODES...in 3 years of the show!
I remember when I closed the deal to be on this show...fresh from my shower and in my bathrobe.
Iâll admit, I thought I would have enough time to get dressed for my first meeting with this show producer. She was conducting a pre-interview to see if Iâd be a good fit for her show, which was syndicated on a ton of platforms.Â
This really felt like the big time back in 2019 for me.Â
I knew I needed a relaxing bath before my day, because (if you havenât tried it, itâs a really fulfilling way to start out your day like a Queen.)
And I wasnât willing to compromise that. Why would you? #QueenStatus đ¸đź
The meeting was set for 6:45 AM.
The steaming hot bath water felt so good.Â
I ...
Two years ago, I did an interview on the Erin Strayer Show. I do a lot of interviews these days, at least 2-3 a week for different shows, summits, speaking gigs, so sometimes, it can feel like a blur when youâre constantly in the go-go-go of the grind.Â
But I never forgot about Erin. (Iâll tell you why tomorrow. đ)
Turns out...now I find out that in 3 years of her show, my episode has become one of her MOST WATCHED EPISODES EVER!!!
And now, weâre nominated for the âBest of the Bestâ Awards!
THIS is the beauty of living + running your empire with vision. â
You never know where one interview 2 years ago will take you.â
You never know when a person you met 2 months ago will become a client.
You never know when those deposits you have put in, day in and day, out to your business will pay off.
One of the things I see that trips up entrepreneurs, especially in the start-up stages in the beginning is shortsightedness.
Just because youâre not bringing in money yetâŚ
Just because youâr...
Could you imagine having a boss who lets you slide?Â
Didnât make a sale this week?Â
BOSS: âEh...itâs okay, you did your best. Iâm sure youâll do better next week.â
Didnât handle that customer issue? Didnât close that BIG sale?
BOSS: âYou know what, we can always get more customers. Thatâs okay.â
Didnât complete or, heck, even start that project thatâs you KNOW you need to do?
BOSS: âYou know what...itâs not THAT important. You can always get to it next week. Hereâs a bottle of wine. Take the weekend off. You tried hard.â
Heck no!Â
Your BOSS would be fired by THEIR boss...who would then fire you.
Yet, when we get into working for ourselves, itâs easy for us to be the slacking âcoolâ boss that lets you slide on your commitments to yourself.
One of the greatest questions I ask my clients is this:
âWould the Future You - the one who has the business you want to have, who is making the money you want to make, who has the life, team, and dreams you desire - would she FIRE you for ...
It was two weeks ago, I was sitting at the kitchen table of our AirBnB, pulling document after document of proof of my income to show to the rental company for our new place. I even needed a letter from my accountant stating the growth of my company.
FYI, Australia doesnât mess around when it comes to proving you can pay your bills.Â
As I was reviewing my numbers, it was then that it hit meâŚ
âHoly shit...I did it!âÂ
I leaped up from my chair and ran into Spike. âI did it!â
We doubled our income this year.
We doubled our profit this year.
And then, we doubled our profit again. (Found that one out from my accountantâs lovely letter. Thanks, Jerra!)
Weâre on track for a 150% growth in 2020.Â
This is the number I screamed from the top of my lungs at Tony Robbinsâ Business Mastery way back in January.
I felt this growth in my BONES.
After we settled into our new place (yes, we got the apartment...woot-woot!), I started reflecting on all the ways 2020 has doubled.
We doubled the ...
One of the biggest obstacles that Iâve seen to a successful clientâs greatness is their comfort level.
Especially when youâve achieved a lot, especially when youâve had several significant wins under your belt, especially when youâve been able to grow, scale, accomplish goals of impressive heights - there is a height, an altitude that is comfortable.
We wanted not to do that. Right, Icarus?
So we coast at an altitude that suits us - nice bottles of wine, nice home, nice life - no real NEED for change.
Except that itâs stirring in your soul begging to be unleashed.
Except for every day youâre going through the motions, you feel like a part of you slightly died or worse, dimmed.
Except that your purpose, that THING, that dream, that unreasonable, seemingly impossible thing that you donât currently know how to do is tugging at your heart like a toddler pulling your hand âFaster, mommy, faster,â to get through the dang line and into Disneyland.
And ev...
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