How uncomfortable did that subject line make you feel? Because hereâs the thing about creative energy - it can get you feeling uncomfortable. Vulnerable. Open. Raw.Â
And, GASP! Clutch your pearls grandma...AUTHENTICALLY ALIGNED AND ALIVE!
Thatâs what sexual energy is.
Napoleon Hill called it âsexual transmutationâ in his book, Think and Grow Rich.
And there is so much shame, societally, that we are taught to have around this sexual energy.
Because how often have you had an idea for a book or a movie or a business or a new strategy and you shared it with people and they thoughtâŚ
It was no good.
Or it was too weird.
Or that it would never become anything.
And if you ACCEPT these perceptions, then suddenly you suppress your sexual energy with shame.Â
Thereâs also so much CONFUSION that can happen around this sexual, creative energy.
This is the same energy that makes people think they are in love in the workplace when they are working closely on a project together.
Itâs no
...How often do you have a habit or a practice in place that feels SOOOOOOOO GOOD? I mean, doing this thing makes your body feel ALIVE, vibrant...AH-MAZING!
But for some reason...somewhere along the way...you just...STOP. DOING. IT.Â
What gives?Â
Fear, duh.Â
Typically, having coached high-achieving entrepreneurs and leaders for the past itâs just because weâve lost the container of having a fear-based drive to do it.Â
The problem was...YOU SAW RESULTS.
Wait? Isnât that what you wanted right?Â
Yep, exactly.Â
You donât feel the need to go to the gym AS OFTEN if youâve lost those ten pounds.Â
You donât feel the need to continue to prospect for clients AS OFTEN after youâve hit a $10K month.
So you stop or slow down the intensity in which you chased the goal
From away from what you donât wantâŚ
Like being 10 pounds heavier.
Or only making $4K a month.
Ever wonder why so many people fall out of love with their business? Or their job? Or their career?Â
I mean, you studied for it.Â
You trained for it.Â
You probably achieved so much in it already.
So what gives?
Typically, having coached high-achieving multi-passionate leaders for the past 5 years, Iâve found that itâs not the job or the business or the career that grows weary.
Itâs their motivation strategy.
You start a business or job or a career to move you AWAY from pain.
You DONâT want to feel constrained by a job anymore...so you start a business!
You DONâT want to be broke...so you start a career or a new job!
You started something because of something you DIDNâT want. But eventually, that motivation will only go so far.
Think of it like thisâŚ
You can hit the gas running while looking in the rearview mirror shaking the dust of what you DONâT want for only so long.Â
You canât drive forward for the long term while looking in the rearview mirror.
Youâll crash.
And so ...
OMG! OMG! Itâs here. Itâs out. Itâs live. Itâs freaking scary. Itâs freaking happening. Itâs freaking done.
Thereâs no going back now.
Because that is what happens every time you up-level - every time you grow beyond your current capacity.
You change who you are at your core.
Itâs your choice to decide...
To choose...
You choose how life changes you.
As Holocaust survivor, Victor Frankl says, âBetween cause and effect there is a space, a gap to choose your reaction.âÂ
For in his passing, I was contacted by THOUSANDS of his fans from Elders React.Â
They shared memories and moments of how through that viral show, he brought them so much joy.Â
For many, he was the grandpa they had wished they had.
For others, he was just âthat crazy guyâ on Youtube...
I donât think my dad knew or realized, really, how many lives he touched with
...CONFESSION TIME: I love me some dirty rap. đś
Oh yes, I mean my white girl booty can get down and Christina Agularia style diiiiiirrrty with Ludacris, Nikki Minaj, and some WOP when the mood strikes.Â
(If youâre with me on this, please let me know đđź)
One of my faves is Ludacris' âWhatâs Yoâ Fantasy,â I mean whooooo, baby itâs already sending off the dopamine secretion in my body. (Yes, that is a real thing...just THINKING about a song that gets you in the mood will trigger the dopamine in your brain.)
So hereâs the thing about fantasyâŚ
No.1 - To Move AWAY from Pain
No.2 - To Move TOWARD Pleasure
Having coached 5, 6, and 7-figure high-achieving leaders for nearly the past 5 years, I have seen more people be motivated by No.1 (PAIN) than by No.2 (Pleasure).
You DONâT want to be stuck making only 5-figures anymore...thatâs PAINFUL!
You DONâT want to be stuck feeling unmotivated...thatâs PAINFUL!
You DONâT want to be stuck having the
...7 Entrepreneurship Lessons from Elders' React Rock (aka MY DAD!!)
From the Fine Brothersâ Elders React to 40+ years of lessons in entrepreneurship growing a business in Los Angeles, my dad, Rock MacKenzie Gritz, taught me many entrepreneurship tips...all while my dad was an addict.Â
While you may know him from FineBros, this video gives you a behind-the-elder look at my dadâs entrepreneurship advice to growing a multi-million dollar business, and if youâre looking for help in setting boundaries in relationships, how to forgive your parents, how to be more generous, how to grow your business in your zone of genius, or how to go from solopreneur to CEO, this video will show you the life and entrepreneurship lessons that my dad taught me during his life.
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523,600 minutes. The musical âRentâ has been playing on the backtrack of my mind since my dad died. Particularly the songs, âWithout Youâ and âSeasons of Loveâ - probably more so the latter since Decky loves the song because it has numbers in it.Â
523,600 minutes.Â
523,000 moments so dear.
523,600 minutes, how do you measure a year?Â
To show yourself some love by getting enough sleep.
To show others your love by writing a kind note or private FB message.
To show your family your love by being fully present with them.
To show strangers your love when you share your voice from a stage or Youtube or on a podcast.
How many minutes a day are you leaning into love?
Like REAL, passionate, full, shakes-you-to-the-core, beams-from-inside you love?Â
Love is a many splendid things.
Love lifts us up where we belong.
Love makes the world go âround.
All you need is love.
The number of songs written about love is nearly infinite.
...Have you ever had a labor of love that was so deeply personal, you just felt you had to get it right - not for you - for the other person?Â
Thatâs how Iâve been with this upcoming Youtube video and re-release of our Crown Yourself channel, or as I like to call itâŚ
Both work - haha.
You see, itâs for my dad.Â
And yes for me.Â
And a little known, but very weird true fact...my dad was a Youtube Star.
Seriously.
Yes, at 68 my dadâs Hollywood dreams came true - finally. He was one of the old guys on a Youtube show called âElderâs React.â Heâd react to the latest viral videos, video games, trends, Kim Kardashian breaking the internet, music videos, and other random stuff.
Pew die Pie even reacted to him once.
You know when youâve been telling your partner something for...forever. And then suddenly they hear it from someone else, and it just CLICKS!
Sure, you have to check your ego. But, once you do, you feel SO FREAKING EXCITED to be on the same page.
Well, that is what yesterdayâs Mind-Body Movement Masterclass was like for me!
I brought in my friend, Physical Therapist, Holly Vaughn - she basically has the entire alphabet of PT creds and certifications behind her - to speak to our Mindful Monarchs Membership.
And I had Spikey, who is our Communication Coach for our VIP Mindful Monarchs, co-lead, and co-host with me.Â
And daaaaaaayyyymmmâŚ
BECAUSE he was on LIVE he got actual tactile tools to use to help his bodyâŚ
BECAUSE he was on LIVE he also had a game-plan that he has already put into action.
#ProudWifeyMoment
...Along with several others of our Mindful Monarchs Members.
It was such a
...Oh, it hurts so good - you know the feeling - when youâre totally crushing it in the gym. You push that extra mile. You do that ONE, LAST rep. You do 10X more sit-ups because youâre just in the freaking zone.
That is what we call good pain.
And it doesnât just show up in the gym.
I see it all the time in my clientâs businesses.Â
When they stretch themselves to hire their first team memberâŚ
When they power through their launch and get their first sign-upsâŚ
When they FINALLY build that passive income funnel that brings them in their first $19 while they sleepâŚ
When they tap into their Zone of Genius and work less while making moreâŚ
That is growth pain.
Because there is a curve of adaptation to BECOME that version of you where your next level of success is freaking normal.
But there is a difference between growth pain (or good pain) and push...
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