I have waited for this day, with bated breath for a month!!!! It felt the same as I waited those extra weeks for Colton to come, nearly three weeks past his due date.

Pregnant with purpose. Pulsating with potential. 

IT’S BEEN A PROCESS OF TRUSTING, RELEASING, BREATHING DEEP, AND KNOWING IT WOULD HAPPEN.

Knowing that the possibility was in me, I’d birthed it and it was going to come…period…perfectly in its divine timing.

The mind is funny when dreams are realized.

The night I gave my TEDx Talk, I came off stage and balled my eyes out. 

I’d thought the sound was funky and within minutes of a truly life-liberating experience, suddenly all the self-limiting stories of fear started to come up.

I could feel my fear-based mind running with a story of…

Yeah, the talk was good but…[INSERT ANY AND EVERY SELF-LIMITING BELIEF]

I constantly had to check myself these past few weeks and remember to practice what I preach:

TRUST and SURRENDER.

TRUST that the sound would be fine.

TRUST tha...

Your voice is your superpower.

And it’s needed more than ever.

If there has been a message stirring on your soul, begging you to unleash

One the motivates

Inspires

Challenges the status quo

Champions others to new heights

Connects.

Is born from your deep heart of service…

From your primal human need to connect…

NOW is the time.

There is no more “waiting to be ready,” or more prepared.

THE PREPARATION IS BRED FROM PRACTICE.

The practice of going out…

Sharing your message…

Using your voice…

Day in and day out…

Doing it.

To put yourself out there.

To make the choice:

STAND OUT FEARLESSLY 

Or blend into the background.

Be in front.

Leading.

Serving.

Being the example.

Being the change.

Or the herd. 

The sheep of colossal consumers glutinously gasping for purpose… and still starving. 

YOU KNOW YOU WERE BORN TO STAND OUT. 

To lead.

To reignite and redefine your industry.

To rewrite the rules of how life, business, love gets to be.

Not be a part of the crowd.

Having coached leaders and entrepreneurs for the past 5 years, I have seen a direct correlation of income to the amount of time the leader is spending in their zone of genius.

So let’s say, for example, your zone of genius is sharing your story and connecting in a powerful transformative interview. BOOM! That is one money-making hour of depth, transformation, and relationship building that could turn into a client, a referral, a strategic partner, an affiliate, a customer!

YOU FEEL ALIVE, INVIGORATED, EMPOWERED COMING OUT OF THAT INTERVIEW, BUZZING FROM BEING IN A STATE OF EASE AND FLOW - THAT’S HOW YOU KNOW YOU’RE IN YOUR ZONE OF GENIUS.

But then…

Because you have your own podcast…

And you don’t have a team or an editor…

You spend 10 hours editing your podcast, which…if we’re being honest…is in your Zone of competence. 

Meaning, you CAN do it.

You’re OKAY at doing it.

You’ve LEARNED how to do it.

…But, when you do it, after those 10 hours you feel drained. Tired. Half-dead.

We are living in a world right now where, now, more than ever, cultivating a skillset of communication skills is vital to the survival of our species. 

We have learned how to argue, complain, berate, share evidence and communicate a side of which we believe we are beholden to be “right” about. 

Now, more than ever divisiveness is circulating, instead of diversity and curiosity. 

Black and white, right and wrong, good and evil  - “sides” prevent us from seeing the bigger picture, or holding a bigger vision for our future.

And it’s because of people not knowing HOW to deeply communicate. 

It’s not our fault. We haven’t been taught. We’ve been taught WHAT to think without question, now HOW to think differently.

Communication is a skill set that every known monarch, politician, and leader MUST cultivate in order to rise.

No matter who they are, the ones we see leading companies, cultures, and countries have cultivated the ability to communicate their perspective well enough for peop...

Is Your Comfort Zone REALLY Killing You?

How to Brag About Yourself

(without Being a Narcissistic A**hole)

A lot of times when people call us names or say things like you’re “too much” or “too bold” or are selfish for wanting more, or you’re stupid for being into whatever it is that lights you up...I want you to know this from the bottom of my heart...

IT’S NOT YOU. IT’S THEM.

While I’m not one for passing the buck or shifting the blame onto others, perception is projection. It’s mirror neurons, baby!

And sometimes when you are shining so bright, there are other crabs in the bucket who have gotten used to being dull and cruddy that your radiance scares them and they want to pull you down because of that.

So just know...

You are not intimidating. 

THEY ARE INTIMIDATED. 

You are not “too much.”

They’re just used to playing small. 

You are not a bitch.

They are not used to honesty, candor, and assertive communication.

You are not selfish.

They’re just used to not wanting or asking more for themselves. 

YOU ARE NOT UNWORTHY.

They just haven’t claimed their worthiness.

You are not...