It is what it is. So cliche, right? But, as I always say, cliches are cliches because they are common truth. 

But, here’s the thing…

YOU CANNOT CHANGE OR MOVE OR GAIN MOMENTUM WITHOUT AWARENESS OF WHAT IS.

So many people live in the mythical land of shoulda-coulda-woulda.

And it’s a lovely place if you like stewing in your own guilt, shame, apathy, and anger. 

But, eh, not so much for me. (Even though, I’m human and, of course, visit from time to time.)

Acknowledging what IS is powerful.

Acknowledging what happened is transformative. 

AND ACKNOWLEDGING THAT WHAT HAPPENED HAPPENED AND WHAT IS IS, IS THE FOUNDATION FOR TRANSFORMATION.

Here’s the thing….

No matter what curveballs or horrific life experiences you have survived...they happened. 

It is what is.

You may not like it.

It may have been completely wrong, immoral, heinous, and unjustified what happened.

BUT WHAT IS IS.

It happened. 

Now, here’s where the transformation happens and can continue to happen, should you...

Doing hard things is hard. And with whatever it is you are looking to accomplish…

Whether it’s…

Connecting with your 3-year old mid-tantrum...

Saving your marriage...

Reprogramming your relationship with food…

Building a multi-million dollar company…

Launching your first course…

There will be moments of hard.

Yes, “hard” is a construct of the mind.

Yes, “hard” also feels gnarly when you are in the thick of it, trying to make it work, find a way, discover a solution, see the opportunity when in the thick of a problem. 

And there comes a time when you have you f*it moment.

It’s that glorious moment of throwing your hands up in the air and SURRENDERING the how.

SURRENDERING to God, Source, the Universe, that you are maxed out and you need the big guns to take over. 

SURRENDERING to the flow, the ease, the possibility, because, quite frankly, you’ve reached your edge.

It’s the period when you REST.

Ever feel like there’s never enough money? I used to as well. Back when I first started my business I was stuck in a paradigm of “never enough.”

“Never enough money.”

“Never enough time.”

Pure scarcity.

As I started to tweak and hone my mindset, reshaping and reframing these beliefs 

Money is all around you. It’s in the phone you hold in your hand. 

It’s the laptop you work on.

It’s the person 

It’s the coffee shop itself.

I stopped seeing money through the limited paradigm of just what I had in my bank account, which, frankly, back then, in my bank account wasn’t a lot.

I STARTED LOOKING AT MONEY FOR WHAT IT IS - AN EVER-FLOWING ABUNDANT RESOURCE. EVER PRESENT. ALL AROUND US.

Money is energy.

And what I started to notice was that successful people, people who had money, saw money everywhere. 

Because money is energy, it flows. It’s not stagnant or stiff. 

WHEN YOU DECIDE TO SEE THAT FLOW, THAT’S WHEN YOU START SEEING MONEY EVERYWHERE.

This used to drive me CRAZY in the personal development space. I would hear my coaches and mentors say, “All you have to do is DECIDE.”

DECIDE to be successful.

DECIDE to be unavailable for anything less than profit and prosperity.

DECIDE to make sh*tons of money.

DECIDE to have a business and life that freaking rocks your socks off!

And for me, back in 2017, I wanted to punch my head through a wall, because I had decided. I had gone all in...and I still wasn’t seeing results as fast or as bountiful as I had wanted. Frustrating, right?

I had to ask...

What does it mean to DECIDE?

It was then that I stumbled upon the book, “Conscious Language: The Logos of Now” and I got a crash course in the nitty-gritty of language and ALL the subconscious meanings that into the words we use.

If we were going to get down and dirty in the nitty-gritty of what it means to decide quite literally is this:

The English prefix de-, means “off” or “from”

The suffix, -cide- comes from Latin, where i...

Urgency. How is this word defined for you? 

Most people never consciously define this word, and, yet, it’s this word that rules them.

Constantly REACTING to the urgent demands of life.

An email.

A phone call.

A customer request.

A family need.

BUT WHAT HAPPENS WHEN TOO MUCH IS LUMPED INTO THE BUCKET OF URGENCY AND DUMPED ON YOU.

The IMPORTANT gets forgotten. 

Priorities fall into the fire of urgency.

Back when I was the president of an e-commerce start-up, being in fire-fighting mode was my default. I would wake up in a panic at 3 AM to answer a customer service question. I’d freak out when a press release would go out, and double-check, then triple-check my work, panicking over the question - “Were there any typos that I missed?” (Grammar is not my specialty.) I’d race over the hill to Burbank to our Starbucks “emergency” meetings about sales projections in a panic. 

I never stopped to question - how is all this fire fighting serving me?

BEING IN “FIRE FIGHTING MODE” IS ON...

Breaking Through Self Doubt as a Mompreneur

(in 3 EASY Steps!!)

Wanna outsmart your self-doubt? Looking for freedom from self-doubt and imposter syndrome? If you’re a mompreneur in need of overcoming self-doubt and types of fear, then KNOW THIS: your kids need you to succeed!

Watch this if you struggle with self-doubt to learn how to stop comparing yourself to others, breakthrough social and self-perceived limitations, and how to overcome the fear of failure.

#Mompreneur #SelfDoubt #OvercomingFear

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Have you ever struggled with feeling all your feelings - you know...even the NEGATIVE ones? Hey, we all have them. We’re human.

Having been in the personal development world for a hot minute, I’ve seen a consistent fear of leaders in the “positive thinking” space who were scared to feel ANYTHING but positivity, light, and happiness.

The problem with that is this:

YOU’RE HUMAN. 

AND AS A HUMAN, WE HAVE A WHOLE RAINBOW OF BEAUTIFUL EMOTIONS TO PROCESS. 

Just the other day, I was processing my own as I felt #allthefeels around burying my dad this week...finally, right? 

Spike found me on the bed crying and our conversation went like this...

Me: "I'm having a really hard time processing that they're going to cremate my dad this week. It feels so final."

Spike: "Just remember, it's not him." My hubby cuddled me close.

Me: (through sobs and tears) "I know, but it's just dust and ash. But, at least if he's bones, it feels like he can rise from the dead...you know like Lazarus...or a ...

FEEL Your Feelings, Mama!

(LIFELINE for Positive-Thinking Perfectionists!)

Not sure how to feel your feelings as a leader or around your kids? Do you not allow yourself to feel your emotions or feel your feelings fully? Struggling with how to process your emotions and connect with your body? I feel ya, QUEEN! I never used to trust my feelings due to some emotional wounds and I had to learn to feel emotions again...and once I did, OH DANG! More love and emotional intelligence flooded in.

Watch this video to learn how to trust your emotions and gain emotional mastery, allowing yourself to feel your feelings fully, like the glorious human (and entrepreneur) you are.

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Find Your Zone of Genius (and ENTREPRENEUR FREEDOM!!)

Wondering how to find your zone of genius? Not sure what the difference is between your zone of genius vs. zone of excellence or why we get stuck in our zone of excellence? Looking to discover how to find your passion now? In this video, I’m bringing you some of the best “Zone of Genius” exercises and tips from conscious living to Gay Hendricks to help you find your passion career and experience the joy of genius. 

Watch this video to find your passion and purpose and take the big leap to live in your zone of genius. 

#ZoneofGenius #Entrepreneurship #ZoneofExcellence #BuildYourEmpire

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