The Soul of Leadership: Leading Without Self-Abandonment
Have you ever built something that looked successful on paper… but felt misaligned in your body?
In this deeply personal episode, I pull back the curtain on a truth many high performers don’t want to admit: burnout isn’t always from doing too much — it’s from abandoning your genius.
After building a “perfect” done-for-you agency, I realized something confronting. The model worked. The results were strong. The clients were happy. But I wasn’t. And when I found out I was pregnant, I knew — the business didn’t need more hustle. It needed realignment.
This episode is a masterclass in sovereign leadership in the age of AI, scaling, and external metrics. We break down the SOUL Framework:
- Self-Awareness – Recognize when your model no longer matches your magic.
- Ownership – Take radical responsibility for shifting what drains you.
- Union – Reconnect your zone of genius to your delivery model.
- Leadership – Build from truth, not templates.
If you’re a visionary founder, creative CEO, or high-performance entrepreneur who feels successful but secretly disconnected, this is your permission slip to redesign your business around your divine gifts.
Because conscious business growth isn’t about copying what works.
It’s about embodying what’s true.
Your business model should match your magic.
And Queen — your reign is now. 👑
Enjoy, sovereigns!
Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube.
Quotes:
“The fastest path to burnout is not doing too much. It’s abandoning your genius.” ~ Kimberly Spencer
“Just because someone else said that model is successful doesn’t mean it’s meant for you.” ~ Kimberly Spencer
“Your business model should match your magic.” ~ Kimberly Spencer
Moments of Note:
00:00 – Burnout Isn’t From Doing Too Much (It’s Misalignment)
Why high achievers burn out when they abandon their zone of genius.
02:10 – Are You Building Your Business From Your Genius or External Expectations?
The hidden cost of chasing “success” that looks good on paper.
05:05 – The Founder Alignment Problem: When the Model Drains Your Soul
How misaligned business models create exhaustion, not lack of work ethic.
08:30 – My Story: The Agency That Looked Perfect But Erased My Joy
Kimberly shares the behind-the-scenes pivot that changed everything.
12:15 – What Is Your Zone of Genius? (The Key to Sovereign Leadership)
The divine space where time disappears and energy expands.
15:40 – Audit Your Business Model: What Feels Heavy, Forced, or Draining?
A practical alignment check for visionary entrepreneurs.
18:55 – Delegation and Leadership Growth: The Role You’ve Outgrown
Why scaling requires releasing tasks that aren’t yours anymore.
22:20 – The Steve Jobs Principle: Visionaries Don’t Live in Delivery
The CEO’s real job is vision, conversion, and creative leadership.
25:10 – Micro-Pivots That Create Massive Business Expansion
Small shifts that bring immediate energy return.
28:45 – Conscious Marketing: Do What You Love, Delegate the Rest
How to grow without forcing yourself into draining systems.
32:30 – Neurodivergent Entrepreneurs + The Genius of Different Thinking
Why visionary founders thrive when supported by the right team structure.
36:10 – The SOUL Framework for Leading Without Self-Abandonment
Self-Awareness, Ownership, Union, Leadership explained.
41:05 – Build From Truth, Not Templates (Legacy Brand Leadership)
Why your business must be designed around your personal truth.
44:30 – Invitation to The Collective: A Space for Sovereign Expansion
Aligned action, community, and conscious business growth.
48:10 – Final Crown: Own Your Throne, Because Your Reign Is Now
A closing transmission for leaders ready to rise.
Mentions + Additional Resources:
Queen… if this episode cracked something open for you — don’t sit on it.
Text it to the founder who looks successful but feels exhausted.
Share it to your stories.
Tag me and tell me your zone of genius.
And if you’re ready to build a business that matches your magic — join us inside The Collective.
This is where visionary leaders take one aligned, courageous action per week.
No templates. No self-abandonment. Just sovereign expansion.
🔗 Join The Collective: https://www.crownyourself.com/the-collective
Own your throne. Your reign is now. 👑
Transcript:
For a full episode transcript, it can be found here.
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Becoming the Queen-B(usiness) of Yo’ Biz:
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Podcasting Queen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fWLm9j9TSPE&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhIznCt03xcCIR-caCZBads
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