Red Flags Don’t Turn Green: Sovereign Boundaries, Abundance & Business Alignment with Erin Thomas
Boundaries aren’t barriers — they’re bridges to sovereignty. In this deeply empowering episode, Kimberly Spencer sits down with Erin Thomas, powerhouse messaging strategist, Enneagram 8, and the visionary behind MultiGen Magic, for a raw and radiant conversation about conscious collaboration, sacred boundaries, and sovereign leadership in business and family.
From learning that “red flags don’t turn green” to redefining what success looks like in motherhood, marriage, and mission, Erin and Kimberly explore what it truly means to lead your empire like a Queen. Together, they unravel how to trust your intuition in partnerships, set boundaries that honor your energy, and build businesses that serve your soul — not enslave it.
You’ll walk away with practical shifts and spiritual insights to help you:
👑 Reclaim time as your most sacred currency.
🔥 Integrate the masculine drive with feminine flow.
🌙 Build a conscious business that expands your family’s legacy.
✨ Lead with reverence, intuition, and radical responsibility.
Because when a Queen honors her no, she amplifies her yes — and that’s when empires are born.
Enjoy, sovereigns!
Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube.
Moments of Note:
⏱️ [00:00:00] – The Power of Conscious Collaboration & Choosing Aligned Partners
Kimberly opens the episode reflecting on the lessons of collaboration — why rushing relationships or ignoring red flags can cost your mission. Erin shares how aligned partnerships rooted in honest conversations and boundaries lead to true magic
⏱️ [00:03:00] – From Scarcity to Abundance: Rewriting the Sisterhood Story
Erin dives into the mindset shift from competition to collaboration, emphasizing that there’s enough abundance for everyone. Kimberly discusses moving from scarcity and masculine hustle into feminine flow and community
⏱️ [00:05:00] – Authenticity Over “Mean Girl” Marketing
A deep discussion on how to create content that’s authentic, story-driven, and free from comparison or shade-throwing. Erin explains why storytelling — not performative competition — is the foundation of magnetic messaging
⏱️ [00:17:00] – Time, Boundaries & the Middle Generation of Leaders
The hosts explore how parenthood and caring for aging parents reshape your relationship with time. Erin shares how she enforces strict time boundaries in both her business and family life
⏱️ [00:39:00] – The Burnout Trap: Overachieving and Overextending in Business
Kimberly and Erin unpack how high-performing women often overextend themselves in pursuit of success — and how Human Design (Projector energy) helped Erin lead with more rest, intuition, and strategy
⏱️ [00:42:00] – Your Story Is the Strategy: Emotional Connection Creates Clients
They explore how storytelling builds authentic brand connection. Kimberly shares how her birth story led to a $30K client — proof that personal stories magnetize aligned audiences
⏱️ [00:49:00] – Quitting Corporate & Creating Freedom Through Storytelling
Erin recounts leaving corporate America to start her business, illustrating how bold, aligned decisions shape destiny. Kimberly highlights the power of sensory storytelling to captivate and connect
⏱️ [00:53:00] – Build a Business That Serves Your Life — Not the Other Way Around
Erin reflects on launching Multi Gen Magic and building her business to support her life’s purpose, not confine it. Kimberly and Erin explore how to create sustainability through systems and support
⏱️ [00:56:00] – Running Family Like a Business: Board Meetings & Boundaries
They discuss applying business frameworks to family life — from “family board meetings” to financial transparency. Kimberly shares how this structure builds trust and harmony at home
⏱️ [01:02:00] – Royal Reflections: Generational Leadership & Legacy
A heart-centered discussion on leading across generations — from kids to aging parents — and building empires that last. Kimberly crowns Erin as a “true queen” for her example of conscious family leadership
⏱️ [01:09:00] – Crowning Yourself: Daily Gratitude, Growth & Sovereignty
Erin shares how she “crowns herself” daily through gratitude, presence, and celebrating growth. Kimberly closes with a reminder to own your throne, mind your business, and reign now
Mentions + Additional Resources:
Get Kimberly Spencer’s Best-selling book here: https://www.crownyourself.com/makeeverypodcastwantyou
Connect with Erin Thomas.
Website: https://erinthomascommunications.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/iamerinthomas
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/iamerinthomas/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamerinthomas
Transcript:
A full episode transcript can be found here. https://www.crownyourself.com/blog
Sharables:
For sharable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.
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📺 YOUTUBE TIPS PLAYLISTS:
The Crown Yourself Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MZwctt-09Yk&list=PL2ClsckBxxujcpec_c4m-haGSeWZkfNmP
Becoming the Queen-B(usiness) of Yo’ Biz:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GEircICw4o0&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhTAZNjo3wKa84gAgJAgpBB
Podcasting Queen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fWLm9j9TSPE&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhIznCt03xcCIR-caCZBads
Conscious Leadership Queen:: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R35hokbpIJI&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhJqGJuF9kqCg-UfBwZzI_o
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