Please enjoy this transcript of the Crown Yourself Podcast, with your host, transformational story coach, Kimberly Spencer (@Kimberly.Spencer)

New level. Same damn devil. She’s just wearing a different dress.

You’ve changed your circumstances. Built the business. Raised your standards. So why does that familiar feeling—being undervalued, overresponsible, or never quite enough—keep walking through a different door?

In this deeply personal episode of the Crown Yourself® podcast, Kimberly Spencer traces a belief about deserving punishment through her experiences with eating disorder recovery, relationships, business partnerships, and money. She shares the moment on the Miss California stage when she realized she no longer needed someone else to hand her a crown—and why changing her relationship with her body still left deeper beliefs to explore.

Through her story, Kimberly examines the just-world bias: our desire to believe life is fair, even when that desire leads us to blame o...