Needing the Problem: The 3 Trojan Horses Blocking Your Breakthrough

May 22, 2025

What if your biggest “problem” isn’t a problem at all… but a Trojan horse guarding your subconscious comfort zone?

In this soul-shifting episode, Kimberly Spencer unpacks the three hidden Trojan horses that keep high-achievers clinging to struggle, stuck in identity loops, and unconsciously resisting their next level of leadership.

Pulling from her own journey—from healing bulimia without medical intervention to becoming a bestselling author and conscious empire builder—Kimberly explores how we unconsciously need our problems for safety, control, or societal belonging. And how those invisible payoffs can keep you overworking, undercharging, sabotaging, or just playing small.

⚔️ Discover the neuroscience behind safety and struggle

⚔️ Why “control” is a seductive illusion (and how to reclaim true power)

⚔️ The sneaky way we sacrifice sovereignty for social acceptance—and how to stop

This episode is a potent initiation. Expect metaphor, personal storytelling, fierce truth bombs, ...

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