It Was Always Meant to Be You

Uncategorized Jul 05, 2020

WHY IS IT THAT SO MANY PEOPLE STRUGGLE AND SUFFER FROM SHOULDING THEMSELVES?

Where they should be.

What they should be doing.

How much they should be making.

Why they should be farther along by now.

Here’s the thing, I’ve noticed with working for high achieving visionary leaders for the past 4 years now…

THE MORE YOU SHOULD YOURSELF, THE MORE YOU’RE STUCK IN THE SHOULD INSTEAD OF ENJOYING WHAT IS.

YOU’RE NOT WHERE YOU “SHOULD” BE BECAUSE YOU’RE NOT THERE. #SORRYNOTSORRY

You’re right where you SHOULD be right now because that is where you are. 

That’s not to say that you can’t or won’t or will never get there.

Wherever “there” is - that mystical magical place where everything is right as rain. Or is it?

Because when you can’t be where you ARE now, what makes you think that you’ll be able to be where you ARE when you’re “THERE?”

The time is now to stop SHOULDing yourself -

Comparing yourself to some mythical conditioned version of you…

Comparing yourself to others…

Comparing yourself to your conditioning…

That’s a rock and a hard place, baby.

Stuck. And sucky. 

In the void between past and future forms of plagiarized programming, that probably isn’t even aligned anyway.

(Again, if it was, you’d be there.)

TRADE YOUR SHOULDS FOR STANDING OUT WHERE YOU ARE. 

Now.

Presence stands out.

Fulfillment stands out.

Fearlessness stands out.

Courage stands out.

ALL OF WHICH HAPPENS IN THE PRESENT MOMENT. 

And if you’re thinking, “But, Kim, I want soooo much more than this right now.”

I hear ya. It’s a myth of high achieving that if GOD FORBID you to take a hot second to celebrate, acknowledge, and give yourself a little grace for being where you are now, that you would somehow stop the flow of achieving, hustle, and grind that you’re soooo used to.

And, after working with hundreds of high achievers (and being a card-carrying member of the Type A Club), I can tell you without a doubt…

YOU WILL ALWAYS KEEP ACHIEVING. 

Keep going. 

Finding new Everests to climb.

You will ALWAYS keep going for the next NEW challenge.

The next BHAG. 

The giant seemingly impossible goal.

You’re a worker.

A Do-er.

An Achiever.

And nothing, not even a little bit of grace, fulfillment, and celebration of how far you’ve come can take that away from you. 

YOU TAKE AWAY THE GLORY OF ENJOYING YOUR ACHIEVEMENTS THOUGH BY SHOULD-ING YOURSELF.  

IT WAS ALWAYS MEANT TO BE YOU. 

And if it’s meant to be…

If your success really is inevitable…

Then not even a little compassion (for yourself) can stop the avalanche of achievements, money, love, abundance, and #allthethings coming your way. 

IT IS IN THE ENERGY OF “SHOULD-ING” THOUGH THAT YOU ACTUALLY PREVENT SLOWING DOWN THE FLOW BECAUSE YOU LOSE YOUR PRESENCE IN THE DANCE OF THE MOMENT. 

BE here now. At this moment. 

OWNing ALL that you are DOING.

And more importantly, ALL that you are BECOMING. 

It was always meant to BE you. 

CLAIM IT. 

Remember your reign is now.

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